Dear Fairy Godmother,
A good friend of mine seems to ‘fall in love’ every other week. She always insists that this time she’s found ‘the one.’ I want to be supportive, because I care about her so much, but I just don’t believe it’s ever true. I don’t how to express my concern without sounding like I’m judging her, but some of those past ‘loves’ have turned into pretty severe hurts, and I don’t want her to keep going through this cycle.
I’m just not the kind of person who believes in love at first sight. I’ve always been more of a ‘you-can’t-marry-a-man-you-just-met’ type than a ‘I’ve-found-the-one-wait-what’s-your-name-again?’ type. My friend calls me cynical when I try to rein in her more romantic expectations, but I just don’t believe that love is an immediate reaction.
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